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You are probably in a relationship and have suddenly found things quite confusing. You could be feeling like the relationship has run its course, or that you are not being honest with yourself. You are merely pretending to be happy, or maybe you are afraid of what the next step will be. These signs of a troubled relationship can plague you and put strain on a possibly damaged relationship.
WHAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU
One of the most common feelings is guilt when you hide your true feelings about the relationship or just plain lie about it. There was a great deal of love in the relationship in the beginning, but now there are a lot of mixed feelings and factors that are contributing to the mixed emotions.
When you begin to seek relationship advice help, it is important to brainstorm what sort of things that you want and do not want in your relationship.
This can include:
WANTS:
- Wanting to grow and develop emotionally
- Excitement and romance in the relationship
- Deep, meaningful conversations
- Intellectual and spiritual stimulation
- Attending outside meetings and events together
THINGS WE DON'T WANT:
- Not wanting to be cheated on
- Not wanting to be abused
- Not wanting to be ignored
- Not Wanting to be alone
And the list goes on...
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WHAT DO I DO NOW?
Once you compiled this list of wants and desires, you need to go through them and identify those which you truly want and do not want.
You should figure out what sort of situation you are in and whether or not it will continue on its current course.
HOW?
Observe your partner and try and figure out if they are capable of growth and doing their part to help turn your troubled relationship around. They need to be able to contribute to the repair of the relationship and move it forward.
If things are truly bad, then you need to step back and see things with a clear head. This may simply involve separating temporarily so that you and your partner can take the time alone to evaluate the situation without distraction. Without having to live together and deal with all of the stresses of being together, both of you will have a clearer head which will provide the basis for a true evaluation of the situation.
THEN WHAT?
What you may find is that the relationship is such that you two cannot be together and that you need to end the relationship. Some relationships are not meant to be, and that should not discourage you. There will be someone for you. If you do find that you and your significant other are capable of making things work in your troubled relationship, then make sure that you and your partner are open and communicative. Without communication, it will be more difficult.
A troubled relationship does not necessarily mean that the end is near. What it does mean is that you and your partner need to take the steps to work things out and move the relationship forward, whether that is towards its end or continuation.
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Regards,
Jim
